It’s over. It’s just beginning.

After years of unhappiness, and a period of separation, Jason and I have finally decided to get a divorce. Sadly, it’s been a long time coming, but we both feel that this is the best thing for us. We are simply in two very different places in our lives and feel that we each need something that the other is not able to provide us.
I’m excited to be moving on with my life. After living in a cloak of denial and rationalizations for a long time, it’ll be good for me to be on my own. I’m already expanding my circle of friends, and trying new things. I feel so much better about life, and it totally shows. My coworkers constantly comment on my improved attitude and disposition. (As I wrote that, we had a 5.8 earthquake hit us. Apparently I’m pissing off the people in hell with my heavenly attitude ) I’m just a happier person now!
I’ll be posting more often now that I’ve got that out in the open. For a while I felt like it was something I couldn’t talk about until things were settled, and now I’m ok with sharing. Instead of viewing this as an end, I’m looking at it as a beginning to the rest of my life!